Self Confidence

"For me, I define my self-confidence by this one belief: I’d rather be me than anyone else in the world. I wouldn’t trade who I am right now to be anyone else. Period. End of story.

Don’t make an imaginary goal of self-confidence... make your goal of being the person you would have chosen if you’d been able to select who you’ll be. Imagine if you’d been able to visit the dealership where your "car" was being sold to your parents. You sit down with the salesman and check off all the cool accessories and options you wanted.

You wake up every day with the ability to live it exactly as you choose it. No one is stopping you but YOU." Carlos Xuma

Dysonans Poznawczy

Dysonans Poznawczy - interesująca teoria o motywach ludzkiego działania.

Leverage

"A lever is a device that we utilize in order to lift or move a tremendous burden we could not manage on our own. In my experience, 20% of any change is knowing ‘how to change’ but 80% is knowing ‘why you must.’

Change requires more than just establishing the knowledge that you should change. It is about knowing at the deepest, most basic emotional level that you must change. If we gather a strong enough set of reasons, we can change in a minute something we’ve failed to change for years.

Those reasons—the why—are what provide the leverage. And the greatest leverage you can create for yourself is the pain that comes from inside, not outside. The pain of knowing that you have failed to live up to your own standards for your life.

Access enough leverage and there will be nothing you can’t change." Tony Robbins

Playfulness

My dear girl, don't flatter yourself. What I did this evening was for Queen and country. You don't think it gave me any pleasure, do you?

Discard Ego

"Until I discarded the ego, and reconnected with my long-lost SELF-ESTEEM, that the bucket with a hole in it became an endless well of pure, clean water. Water that I could share with everyone."

"you have to retain knowledge but discard ego and impatience. seek the divine with unbounded devotion, and serve the creation with unselfish love. Supreme knowledge and supreme love, which are two sides of the same coin, lead you to supreme bliss. Go into the wide world and serve the people with humility and love."

"No ego - not defining who you are by external feedback."

"Ego is nothing more than a mass of unexamined thoughts which we mistakenly believe to be ourselves. Therefore ego is not who we are. Ego is our false self."

Escalation

Nie = jeszcze nie.

Charm

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Bond, James Bond

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Moim drugim doradcą jest Tyler Durden.